When Motherhood is Loss

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(By Megan Parker- Cofounder of Abide)

On Mother’s Day I am reminded of everything I’ve missed out on. This spring will be 21 years since I lost my mom. And while so much beauty has come out of that loss (like a loving stepmother and three amazing little siblings) nothing ever really fills that hole. Mothers are meant to raise their babies plain and simple.

It’s a truth I’ve lived my whole life. And it hurts extra on this day when people celebrate all their mothers have done for them- all things my mother didn’t have the chance to do. It’s a mix of jealousy and grief and loneliness and passion for every family Abide keeps together. Every child I now know won’t feel that ache each year with me.  

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After all these years here’s what I know: mamas and their babies belong together. And when that’s not possible it hurts like hell. So I’m gonna keep fighting every day to make that possible. Will you join me?

Donate to keep moms and babies together HERE

If you are donating in honor of someone let us know and we will send them a handwritten card from the Abide team.

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